We focus on how they make us feel, if they are kind, how they treat people. It doesn’t matter where it came from because this isn’t how we judge others.
Most people wear what they are comfortable in, what makes them feel good. Regardless, I told him nobody should be judged based on how they dress - not even your very embarrassing mother. If he only knew how many women I saw throughout the day wearing suits and heels maybe he would have a different opinion. When I asked my son why he picked this out, he said because I “blended in and didn’t look out of place.” In his mind, when I dress up, I look like I don’t belong.
Sometimes I feel like dressing up more, so I do. While I dress like this about half the time and like this look, it doesn’t always suit me.
